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Dating games 101

Friday, January 12th, 2007

I’ve come to realize what dating is really all about. Dating is really a game played between two people that have a slight interest in each other. The object to the game is to get her to think of you more than you are thinking of her; or him but since I’m male I’m going to use her.  To complicate things you can never be sure if she’s thinking of you more than you are thinking of her but sometimes you get hits. If she calls you, you are obviously on her mind. If she forgets to call you, you are losing. Sometimes you get deceiving hits, for example she tells you to call her.

Don’t try to figure out who is winning because I guarantee you this will cause you to lose, you will start thinking of her too much.  When you are losing you got to step back and avoid her. Then she will naturally start thinking of you more wondering what is up with you and this will even the score. The higher your score the more power and influence you have over your opponent. People have different strategies like sending mixed signals, and pretending they don’t care but it’s all for the same objective, to try to make you think of them more. The game only continues along as it stays balanced. You win when the other person thinks non stop about you.